I’ve found that it’s best not to set a timer because I always wonder how long I have left. It helps to go into it with no expectations of how long you’ll be there. Listen to your body and come out of it when you feel ready.
Don’t beg for or fall all over yourself being so damn grateful for a man doing what should be as easy as brushing his teeth.
Loving you isn’t a chore.
Showing you respect isn’t above and beyond.
Speaking kindly, offering encouragement and listening to you are not special gifts.
Wanting your body and desiring you aren’t sacrifices.
Making time to be with you isn’t making him a martyr.